The painful details (literally!)?! I was in labour approximately 22 hours before the obstetrician decided that Avery's heart rate was too high and she needed to come out right away. In a way, this was better than the 40 hours I laboured with Josh before I ended up with a C-section. But, for some reason, it seemed MUCH more painful this time around! I was stuck at 4cm dilated for most of the labour (about 19 hours) and then after I surrendered to the epidural, I dilated to 7cm in an hour! The drug doctor is a labouring woman's best friend, I tell ya! That was around the point where it was decided that Avery needed to come out ASAP. As an aside, when the obstetrician did a final exam on the OR table, I was 9 cm dilated. I was almost able to push this baby out!
We're so relieved that the obstetrician made the call when she did because when Avery came out, they said her "tone" wasn't normal. She was floppy and it took them about 8 minutes to get her to a normal tone. I also remember that she was pretty quiet - her little "wah" noises were not the usual newborn wailings. In the 8 minutes that she was on the warming bed, she developed a fever, so the paediatrician decided that she should go to the NICU for observation and possible tests.
Brian stayed with her while the doctors finished working on me before taking me to recovery. When I came out of recovery, they took me to Brian and Avery in the NICU. They said they thought she might have had an infection, but the blood test looked normal and her temperature was coming down, so they decided she didn't need any anti-biotics. By the time they got me into my room and settled in, she was brought to us to stay. We were VERY relieved and VERY exhausted!
I STILL can't stop staring at our beautiful little girl. Partly because I know this is the last time we will go through this and partly because she is JUST SO CUTE! Just like Josh, we are having feeding issues and she has developed jaundice, but we are still taking it one day at a time and doing the best we can.
Josh is taking things quite well right now. I think it was harder for me to adjust to sharing my love for my 2 children! This C-section hit me hardest the first time I saw Josh and he wanted me to lift him up. I realized I won't be able to lift him up for the next 6 to 8 weeks. I'm trying to get down to "his level" but that is also hard 5 days after major surgery.
So, despite all this, Josh is reacting amazing! I think alot of it has to do with our guardian angel - Josh's Nana. Brian's mom has been our saviour through all this! I'm not sure what we would have done without her! We had originally asked her to help us if this baby came early (before my parents arrive on April 21st!), but then Brian's dad got sick (which is a COMPLETELY different story!) and we scrambled to find a back-up plan.
Well, Brian's mom reassured us that she would still be able to help us and she has done MORE than just help us! She has not only taken care of Josh when we needed it, but she is also taking care of us. It's amazing to see her in action and I am SO grateful and SO completely indebted. Thanks so much, Mom. We love you!
Thanks, too, to everyone for the food, gifts, emails, phone calls and visits. It really shows us how much we are loved by our family and friends. We can't wait for all of you to meet Avery! In the meantime, here are some photos of Avery's first few hours and days...
Avery Sandra Van Dop
Avery with Mommy and Daddy
Daddy's little girl
EVERYONE is exhausted (check out the background!)
The Van Dop Family
Nana meets Avery for the first time
Mom gets to hold her 2 kids
Who's the patient - Joshie or Mommy?!
Beautiful baby girl - home at last!
Nikita and Avery meet
Joshie gets a good look at his baby sister
Well done! Congratulations!! I hope you have a speedy recovery and are out and about enjoying the springtime with your new baby soon!
These are only a few words that describe our newest Grandchild, Avery Sandra,.....BEAUTIFUL, GORGEOUS, and ADORABLE!!!!
Oh, how I love her and her BIG brother Joshie....precious beyond words. We love you Yvette and Brian, and thank you for this wonderful gift. You do good work!
love from Mom and Nana
Congratulations and welcome baby Avery! You've chosen an awesome family to be a part of.
Congratulations to all of you. She is just beautiful. WE hope you have a speedy recovery. Welcome in this world baby Avery. From the Blommesteins in Revelstoke.
Love love love photo #2 -- those lips!
Congratulations on your darling baby girl. I realize I am a complete stranger but I do have to say I love her name!
I google my own name now and then just to be sure all is okay because as a school superintendent I need to make sure it is okay.
And there was your beautiful Avery with such a close name I just had to comment.
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